Cheating boyfriend robbing me blind

Dear Pastor,

I am writing to you for advice. I am 30 and I have a three-year-old child with my boyfriend of six years.

Recently, his girlfriend called me and told me that they have been together from my daughter was six months old. This man doesn't work; I pay all the bills and take care of him plus my daughter. We struggled so much together.

About 2020, I bought a car so that I could get to work on Sundays. We sold that car and kept buying until we owned four other vehicles, but we only have one now. His entire family knew that he was talking to the young woman. When I called his mother she said she wasn't aware of the situation, but the young woman said all of them used to go out together.

I bought everything for this man because I believed that in a relationship, you should help each other. At one stage, I used to raise chickens, but I had to stop because he used to collect up to $40,000 or more behind my back and he couldn't say what he did with the money.

Once we went to my mother and I left about $35,000 in my purse. When I returned, the house was upside down and all the money was missing. I contacted the police and this guy said that I should not report him to the police.

He took away the cylinder with the gas from the house and gave it to the young woman. I removed all my furniture from the house and blocked him. I also blocked all his family members.

Dear Pastor, what should I do?

P.

Dear P.,

Evidently you are a hard-working woman. You will make any hard-working man proud of you.

You did not rely on a man to support you. But according to what you have said, this man with whom you lived was not a good spouse. Both of you could have built a good relationship, but while you were working hard, he was going another way. I am so sorry to hear that you have lost so much. The chicken business can be very profitable. The question is, what he did with the money he collected from customers? The good Lord will punish him for the way he has treated you.

You suspected that he stole the money that you left at the house. The problem with that is that you have no proof. So although you called the police and made a complaint, you didn't see him take the money. But in your heart, you know that the money could not have walked away. You stayed too long with him; you should have left him long ago. Let him go with everything. You can start anew.

You should take this man to court for child support. He should be forced to support his child. He is a wicked man. I offer to you my prayers. God will take care of you. Please let me hear from you again.

Pastor